I Wish I’d Known: Vaccines at 15 Month Check Up
April 21, 2008
Cavanaugh’s got his 15 month well check at the pediatrician’s on Wednesday. He’ll be 17 months and nine days old — just a little late for the 15 month check. I’ve been putting it off because I’ve stopped knowing what I think about vaccines. My original position was that you get them in order to keep your kids safe and to avoid the resurgence of diseases that have been eradicated or mostly eradicated by vaccines. When we were originally interviewing our pediatrician, I asked him about the connection between vaccines and autism and he’d explained that Dr. Wakefield’s study was flawed and no one had done a new study that could prove a link between Measles or any other vaccine and an increased probability of developing autism. Excellent, one less thing to worry about. We’d get our son all of his shots based on the vaccination schedule from the American Association of Pediatricians.
But most of the mamas I know are not vaccinating or are doing delayed or selected vaccinations. My son and I belong to a playgroup with mamas and babies who are practicing attachment parenting (AP). Many of the families that are AP are also NP (Natural Parents), meaning they use cloth diapers, eat organic foods, have alternative views about vaccinations, watch for things like chemical leaching in plastic sippy cups and the like. So, for months every time we’ve taken Cavanaugh for his shots I’ve heard mamas talk about how they skipped the last well check or paid a $15 co-pay to get their child weighed and measured because they weren’t doing any vaccines. All of these smart women that I respect are making a very different choice than we’ve made, so i figured I needed to do my own research on vaccines in order to make an informed decision.
I’d been asking mamas what choices they were making about vaccines for months. What they were saying made sense. Why vaccinate for Hepatitis B on a child’s first day out of the womb? It is a disease passed through needles and sexual activity. It seems like that’s one that can wait. One mom started talking about antibody titers and being able to test to see if an immunity for Hib has developed after the first or second shot instead of giving four because it takes that long for some people to develop immunity. Someone else said that when we were kids, we only got about 20 vaccinations by the time we were five years old, but kids now get 40 – 50 vaccinations by that time and many shots are combined so in one appointment, a child may be immunized against six or more diseases. This can tax a child’s developing immune system. Aha. So this is why people are delaying shots or putting their kids through extra appointments to get shots one at a time rather than many at once. I kept hearing more and more about kids getting vaccinated at 18 months and experiencing onset of autism spectrum disorder.
I don’t feel willing to base decisions about my son’s health on hearsay so I started reading. I read articles about connections between vaccinations and autism. I read blogs and parent testimonials about what had happened to their kids. I read an amazing article by Sari Weston in the Spring 2008 issue of Brain, Child called “The Needle and the Studies Done.” Then I ordered The Vaccine Book by Robert Sears.
i can now recite my own jumble of acronyms and risks associated with vaccination and give reasons for the choices we’ll be making about Cavanaugh’s immunizations going forward. If we had it to do over again, Cavanaugh wouldn’t have gotten Hep B or polio shots yet. We probably wouldn’t have done Hib. We’re on the fence about DTaP because pertussis is common but the ingredients in the vaccine are disturbing and the need for Tetanus and Diptheria is questionable. We’re definitely separating the MMR vaccine so that Cavanaugh gets Rubella now. Though Rubella would not be serious for Cavanaugh at this age, because Rubella can cause birth defects including deafness, blindness, and brain damage for babies exposed during pregnancy. Since women’s immunity to Rubella can wane without booster shots, the risk is not a choice I’m willing to make for another person. We’re waiting on Measles though. No definitive study shows a connection, but enough mamas are out there saying that after their MMR vaccine their kids lost social skills, lost language, and needed extensive occupational therapy to get back to their previous selves and recover from autism spectrum disorder. Some didn’t ever recover. We’re just not willing to risk it, not to vaccinate for a disease that’s rare and not usually serious.
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Jaimee Gleisner | April 29, 2008 at 1:34 pm
I applaud mothers that take the time to question the conventional and do their own research to come to thoughtful decisions. Great post, Sonya!
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Amy C | May 6, 2008 at 2:28 pm
Sonya– I love that you have been so thoughtful about this. Such a hard, hard decision, and one that we continue to re-visit (as with all hard decisions).
btw, we see a different dr in the same practice, and I have never heard of a family being asked to leave this practice based on a decision not to vaccinate…. but I understand that it is not easy to go against a ped’s recommendation.
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Karen Black | July 28, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Sonya– I too am struggling with the issue whether to vaccinate or not. My daughter is 2 and has had NO vaccines (thanks to my very informed OB) — My research showed that the rubella vaccine in the MMR was one to avoid though… was I wrong about that? Of course I understand your position as well regarding the health of a fetus. I have been trying to find a site that is pro vaccine, with actual people writing in to say they are glad they did it, or that they wish they had done it because their child suffered permanent damage or death from a disease they contracted. So far I have found NOTHING. Of course there are hundreds of testimonials from people who had reactions to the vaccines. I really do wish to make a balanced decision on this, and I’m sure you know that there are so many drama and fear based websites out there telling you all sorts of things. If you have come across a pro-vaccine website in all your research, I would love to see it. By the way, I don’t know if you can leave this posted, but the best place I’ve found so far (with real letters from parents) is http://www.thinktwice.org –
they seem to have real, study-based evidence taken from medical journals. Thanks for putting your experience out there for us to see.
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tmurphathome | November 19, 2008 at 11:48 am
Sonya – It is a very hard decision to make these days to vaccinate or not to vaccinate. When my kids were young it was just something you did automatically. These days there are questions and issues and not really enough answers. My daughter is a 4th grade school teacher in Southern California. While in college taking her teaching credential program she had to be tested for TB. Imagine our shock when she tested positive! They did xrays but she was fine. She had just been “exposed” at one time during her life but hadn’t actually developed the disease. This is a disease that we thought just didn’t happen anymore in the U.S. She wound up having to take 9 months of an antibiotic to help reduce the chances of her actually getting sick from TB if she were exposed by a future student. The sad thing about today is that since we have such an influx of immigrants that have not had vaccinations a lot of the diseases that had basically been iradicated in the U.S. are now coming back. It’s a hard choice to make. You have to weigh the consequences. Your choice to research as much as you can is a step in the right direction.
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Sonya Feher | November 20, 2008 at 1:30 pm
I also was tested for TB when I became a teacher. The exposure to illnesses in school or in groups is a risk I definitely cocnsider. Even though Cavanaugh is at home with me, we go to playgroups and parks. The kids pass around colds and flu. Central Texas had a large number of cases of pertussis last year. Ultimately, the question at the center of my decision about which vaccinations to give Cavanaugh is based on the likelihood of exposure to the illness vs. the danger of possible side effects. If it’s chicken pox, I’d much rather have the illness for a week than the vaccine, which needs a booster and then can still leave room for shingles later. If it’s polio or meningitis, different rules apply.
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VandyMD | February 9, 2009 at 3:35 pm
I am very glad that my daughter has had vaccines; just wanted to give another POV that one poster said she has not heard. I didn’t get her the hepatitis vaccine (since I got it in med school and she has really low risks of exposure) and delayed the varicella since I received that one in med school too and had to be re-vaccinated, so weak was the vaccine. But otherwise, she got vaccines and is a thriving, happy 15 month old. So I’m really pro-vaccines; the number of antigens babies are exposed to in vaccines is way lower than that they are exposed to when interacting with pets, at the park, in day-care, etc so not too concerned about that. Please do get the polio vaccine though. Look historically at what polio did to those who were not exposed until they were older (usually upper class children). Given the high rates of vaccination, the possibility of being infected at a later age can predispose such children to dire consequences.
cheers!
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Sonya Feher | February 22, 2009 at 10:37 pm
I had a friend who had polio as a child. I agree it’s really scary. I do intend to get almost all of the vaccines done, with the possible exception of the chicken pox/varicella vaccine because it does seem to be so weak. We’re just spreading them out a bit, letting his immune system mature some, and considering the risks of the vaccines versus the risks of the side effects of the vaccines. I definitely appreciate your perspective and welcome your opinion.
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Roger | June 16, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Studies have concluded that there is no connection between autism and vaccines. Don’t believe them.
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Reena | June 17, 2009 at 11:55 pm
I am also pro-vaccine. I have two kids (one 7yr and other one 18 months).I have given all vaccine to the elder one including varicella (one dose) 3 yrs back. For the lil one, last month i had given one shot of varicella, second shot after a couple of months. Please understand, we cant go against those who have done years of research to develop these vaccines. varicella vaccine has been effective as I can see observing my 7 year old. What i believe is if someone had chicken pox after the vaccine, its intensity has been 75% less than usual. hence less of suffering. does anyone has anything else to say?
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Vaccines and Autism « mamaTRUE: parenting as practice | June 24, 2009 at 9:38 pm
[...] I particularly like The Vaccine Book: Making the Right Decision for Your Child because it is not pro- or anti-vax. It explores the risks of the vaccines vs. the risks of the diseases and lets parents make their own decisions. I wrote about what we decided to do with our son’s 15 month shots here. [...]
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sandrar | September 10, 2009 at 10:10 am
Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog.
Cheers! Sandra. R.